Are you beautiful?

I’m not ….. I know that.

Now before I get howled down, about how I need to accept my inner beauty, be a beautiful light, and many other such trite’isms …. please be aware, acknowledging my lack of beauty doesn’t automatically mean I hate myself.  I appreciate that my features are arranged into a generally acceptable face, not inclined to instil fear in small children, but also not likely to inspire sonnets either.  My face is round, prone to being ruddy, and not particularly photogenic.  I certainly have never mastered my “camera smile”, which means I don’t particularly like smiling in photos.

Mostly, this lack hasn’t bothered me much.  I don’t come from pretty stock.  My mother’s family tend towards the mannish in looks, well leathered skin, and tend to age not very well.  My father’s family tend towards the pointy chin, wicked witch look, especially as they age.  I would say, that in the scheme of things, my siblings and I have done the best we could, genetically, with the chromosomes we were given.

I don’t hold much truck with models, and actors.  Like fashion designers think of plus sized women …. I tend to feel those in the public eye, are verging on not real people.  So I don’t compare myself ….. or should I say I try not to.

But, I am an active part of the sewing community.   And so I receive newsletters from various pattern companies.  Todays was from StyleArc, who make wonderful fashion forward designs.  They value their customer base, and regularly send out their newsletters with photos of outfits customers have made from their designs.

So todays photo was a beautiful woman, in a stunning lace dress.  She’s not a model, or actress.  She’s not super thin, or plus sized.  She is a normal person, in a lovely dress.  But also, well at least in my eyes, she was beautiful.  A stunning prettiness,  along with a glow that spelled health and happiness.

I work hard to be comfortable in my own skin, but I must admit ….. just a tiny bit of jealousy.  Not terribly proud of it.

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Lounge Room quilts

The first of two quilts, that I made for my lounge chairs.

I completed both quilts last year, and unfortunately, my friend, who was long arm quilting them for me, had a massive rush of jobs, along with a couple of family issues, so they have been waiting at her place to be finished, all year.

This is the first quilt, a set of charm squares in a range whose name I can’t remember now. Quilting is a pantograph of some particular name, I also can’t remember. I do know that I chose it, as the swirls are a great counter point to the linear nature of the quilt.

Lounge room quilt #1

A close up, because we always like to look up close.

Lounge room quilt #1

The second quilt just needs to be bound, and then it will be done also.

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Who would you thank in your life?

I would like to thank ……. Naked Margaret.

Yep … naked. As a 12 year old girl, with a depressed and uninterested mother who had left her husband (my father) for the last time, Naked Margaret was a surprising, brief but powerful influence in my life.

You see, Naked Margaret was the final mistress/girlfriend that finally convinced my mother that Dad was no good. I only met her once, on an access visit with Dad. She taught me about personal hygiene, brushing my teeth every day, wiping front to back, let me shave my armpits and legs, and yelled at dad when he tried to stop me wearing a bikini.

But what she taught me most, was that you must love your body for what it is, not what you want it to be. She wasn’t a model, she was curvy and lush, with a mummy belly from her own 3 children. But, while making the bed with her one day, I looked up to see her dressing gown open, and the fact that she was naked underneath (where she gets her name from me). There was no hint of shame, or enforced modesty. She was who she was. She wore a bikini, she wandered the house in her underwear, and she took no rot from anyone.  It didn’t take her long to see through Dad and his rubbish, so she wasn’t in his life long enough for me to get to know better.

As sad as it was to watch my parents’ marriage implode, I value Naked Margaret’s brief appearance in my life more than anything.

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Its just a body ……… and its only clothes

My sister has a policy with regards to food, and her picky food hating toddlers ……. its just food, there is no point stressing over it.  She developed this attitude when her first boy was 2, and she was struggling with getting him to eat, like parents all over the world.

After seeing a discussion about certain styles of clothing, it occurred to me, that the same attitude could be applied to clothing.  Apparently there are body shapes that “should never be allowed” (not my words) to wear certain styles …… overweight 50+ women in sleeveless sheath dresses was one no-go zone apparently.  And certainly, its a major issue, if an overweight woman wants to wear a bikini.  (how on earth do I show sarcasm?  italics?)

I wear a bikini …. a skirted briefs bottom (because my genetics blessed me with a fair amount of body hair I am not 100% happy with), a halter bikini top (because I don’t need a padded top, I have enough padding already), and then a sun protection shirt (its Australia people …. the skin cancer capital of the world).   After a swim with friends, I got out, and the first thing I did was strip off the shirt, before drying off.  One of the ladies that I was with was horrified, that not only would I reveal my flabby belly, but that I would expose everyone to the massive scar across my abdomen …. like somehow the evidence of my fragile health in the past, could somehow traumatise people.

Its just a body …… and its only clothes.

Thats it.  Its not rocket science, its not an issue that will cause imminent social breakdown, immediate world conflict, tarnish the silver, or stopping cows from giving milk.

It is taking a piece of fabric, shaping it into something you like, and then covering your body for warmth, sun protection or personal modesty.  What others think of it, what society thinks it can dictate, what your mothers group or the bitchy shop assistant at the mall says, and ….. most importantly ….. what faceless internet trolls with 2 brain cells write from the safety of blog comments …. does not matter.  If you like your clothes, and you are comfortable, then the opinion of others matters little.

Its just a body …… and its only clothes.

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I luuuurrrrvvvvveee tulle!

Well, me personally, no I don’t.  As part of this Angel Gowns experience, tulle is a pain in the bum.  Its too stiff, and no use what-so-ever on the gowns.  It makes packing the dresses for storage quite difficult too ….. I don’t have infinite space.

LittleMadam however ….. thought that the tulle underskirt I removed from a gown, was a load of fun.

I wonder, should I make her a tutu of her own?

Nah … she would probably rip it up.

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Removing Overlocker Stitch – a tutorial

Just a quick tute today.  After overlocking (serging) the shoulder seams of two gowns today, I realised that I actually needed to complete the vests first.  So, hence a tute on removing overlocker stitch.

Hope this helps everyone.

Removing Overlocking tutorial

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Angel Gowns – Gathered Organza skirt overlay

Wow, its been ages since I did a tutorial.

Okies, so my latest wedding dress included a beautiful organza overskirt, edged with beaded and embellished white and silver lace.  Lovely heavy lace, that didn’t shed its blinking beads when I unpicked it.  Although, I did discover a pin.  Is it lucky to get married with a pin in your dress?  Well, I say it is.

So, faced with an unfamiliar fabric, I had to improvise.  And I think it went well.  I went for  simple rectangles of fabric, edged with bias, and then gathered onto the satin gown, with the gorgeous lace applied over the top.

Gathered skirt overlay

I have been asked to do a tutorial for this method, and I am looking forward to all the fabulous seamstresses within Angel Gowns, who will take this simple method, and create stunning gowns with them.

Gathered skirt overlay tutorial

As always with my tutorials, feel free to pass on to anyone that makes angel gowns, and would like to use them.  My only request is that you don’t remove my name from the tutorial.

 

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Angel Gowns – Tutorial

When I started making gowns for Angel Gowns, I obtained the patterns from Michelle, who is the creator of the wonderful Angel Gowns by michelle (in america).  While the patterns were passed on to her by someone else, there is no doubting that they are well thought out, and a good range of sizes.

But, like all creative people, I can’t help tinkering with things.  The original pattern included instructions for a facing.  In such a tiny item, I much prefer using bias binding on a neckline, as I prefer the neater finish.

As I put the patterns out to the other seamstresses for Angel Gowns Australia, I was asked for instructions on this neckline variation.  So I have created a tutorial for sewing the entire gown.  Because I wanted to include nice big photos, the tute is a bit big, so I split it  into three documents.  The first one especially can be a bit slow to download, but they are all PDF’s so they should behave.  (please accept any typo’s as a symptom of me just turning 45).  ;)

Angel gowns Tutorial – Part 1

Angel gowns Tutorial – part 2

Angel gowns Tutorial – Part 3

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Angel Gowns – Vest Tutorial

I have been heavily involved in a new charity group call Angel Gowns Australia, with me volunteering to be one of the seamstresses for the ACT sub-branch.  This is something close to my heart, as most of my friends and family would be well aware.

The group was established, after being inspired by a group in the USA, called Angel Gowns by Michelle.  Michelle has been generous, passing the patterns on to us for use in Australia.  The patterns for these gowns, have passed through many hands, and I am sure the design has benefited from knowledge passed to seamstresses from hospitals and paediatric units. There are minimal internal seams to rub skin, the gowns are rear opening to allow for ease of dressing, and the ribbon closures don’t require pressure (snaps), fiddling (buttons) or the danger of damaging fragile skin (velcro). Big wide dolman style sleeves with no elastic, mean that little arms aren’t caught when being dressed.

After a request from a donator, I was inspired to produce a gown that was masculine, but still special. I had seen an image of a christening gown with a vest during some time I was cruising online, and I thought it was a natty thing to do. The only barrier, was that I had to draft the vest. I am ok at these things, but not confident. When I designed the vest, it isn’t a vest separate to the gown (therefore requiring more handling of bubby than you need), but rather a decorative element on the front. All of the other frippery used on the gowns is much the same, on the front of the dress, where it can be on show for the parents without impacting on the baby.

This pattern, and the matching tutorial, are free to anyone sewing for Angel Gowns, or any other similar charity (although the patterns may need adjustment to match other gown patterns).  I only ask that you credit my design in some small way.

Vest instructions

Vest Patterns

If you choose to be involved in a special charity like Angel Gowns, please know that you are providing a special memory to parents and family, suffering the grief that comes with going home with empty arms.

 

White gown with blue vest

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Dear young woman in the black dress

To the young woman in the black skater dress at my local shopping centre.

Firstly, your dress is lovely ……. black, with lace panels up the side of the closely fitted bodice, beautiful swirly circle skirt.

The dress complimented your figure beautifully, highlighting your lovely long legs, shapely hips and narrow torso.

You are youthful, tall, with long dark hair,  and really, I support totally the right of young people to wear whatever they want, whenever they want.

However …………….

Please consider a little more length to your skirts when you are shopping?

Standing up straight it is dead sexy, but there is nothing more startling than to walk around the corner in the meat department, to be met by the sight of a lace g-string, and a pair of beautifully firm butt cheeks right in front of me, as you bent over the trolley to the children.

Wearing the clothing isn’t wrong, but perhaps consider those of us who aren’t expecting that sort of surprise at 4pm on a Saturday.

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